Cactus Codex

Pony blogger, actual cactus, artist, writer, computer scientist, and linguist. New Jersey / Pennsylvania | 21 | male, he/him/his | asexual hispanic | Cereus repandus, or Peruvian apple cactus

Seriously.

THREE guys have admitted to having THOSE kinds of feelings towards me.

It’s not that it’s creepy (though it kinda is). It’s just that it’s so foreign to me. I never had people reveal such things to and about me like that before. And I don’t know how to respond because I don’t feel that way to them! And then I start looking like the jerk so I try to explain or try to hide but it just makes it worse and eventually the friendship ends because of that!

HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS WITHOUT LOSING A FRIEND. ;_;

  1. asymmetricsolutions said: Date one of them and see what happens? I mean, assuming that you’re into guys, but yeah, you may as well right?
  2. cyber-wing said: Be yourself and be honest. If they understand they are worth being your friend.
  3. 5mogoncc said: It’s not your fault, dude. There’s really not a great deal you can do short of agreeing to some sort of bisexual mass polygamy to include everyone who asks you ever. Yeah exactly. It’s really unavoidable, sadly, and it’s a sucky feeling despite everything
  4. rainev1 said: Just be honest and straight forward. And offer an e-hug afterwards.
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