Cactus Codex

Pony blogger, actual cactus, artist, writer, computer scientist, and linguist. New Jersey / Pennsylvania | 21 | male, he/him/his | asexual hispanic | Cereus repandus, or Peruvian apple cactus

For as long as I have lived, I have never truly been romantically or sexually attracted to anyone.

And I used to be able to claim that no one ever felt like that towards me. (But’s that’s a more private matter.)

It’s not really a heavy burden. But it’s making me think about how I identify myself.

Most of my IRL friends are girls. Most of my online friends are guys.

I’ve always seen myself as straight. But recent events have caused me to reconsider that stance. Not towards the other side of the graph, but out of the graph. To a point where I might consider myself asexual.

I would go on about those “recent events” but those are too private, even for a read-more.

  1. ask-filly-vinyl said: I am asexual as well. You should go on AVEN if you’re not sure if you’re asexual.
  2. pvryohei said: I feel a similar way. I had a few crushes before, but I never really felt attracted to anyone. This lead me to a lot of confusion before I learnt that a single person can have different sexual and romantic orientation.
  3. adrianianam said: Have you looked into any organizations relating to asexuality? They might be able to help you figure things out.
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